You’re doom-scrolling at 10 PM (we’ve literally all been there), when suddenly SHE appears on your feed. That impossibly successful Christian woman in business with the perfect aesthetic, 6-figure launches, and a following that makes your heart do an ugly little twinge thing. And just like that…you’re spiraling faster than you can say “faith over fear.”

OK, The Comparison Trap is Officially TOXIC

The Bible straight-up calls us out in Galatians 6:4-5 with: “Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else.” And yet here you are, obsessively tracking your engagement rate against hers. 

Let’s get brutally honest about what you’re probably doing:

• STALKING that Christian coach who launched a waitlist so huge it crashed her site (while you’re praying for just 10 sign-ups)
• ANALYZING every detail of a faith-based influencer’s Pinterest-perfect brand photoshoot (that you definitely can’t afford yet)
• CALCULATING how many zeros may be in that other girl’s monthly revenue (while your own bank account is giving major “loaves and fishes needed” vibes)

The Truth That Will Blow. Your. Mind.

Ready for the spiritual glow-up your business desperately needs? Here it is: In God’s economy, scarcity is NOT a thing. 

And no, I’m telling you some cute quote that you can use to place in your planner later. It’s the ultimate power move that the most successful Christian entrepreneurs have been secretly practicing forever.

When you FINALLY get this (like, really get it), those other Christian women in business transform from competition into:

1. Your Ultimate Business Inspos – Their success isn’t stealing your spotlight, but instead literally showing you what’s waiting in your future!
2. Your Greatest Connection Opportunities – Stop seeing rivals and start seeing future masterminds, podcast swaps, and collab partners who might slide into your DMs!
3. Your Business Forerunners – They’re not ahead of you, but rather clearing the path FOR you. (Mind = blown, right?)

4 Insanely Effective Ways to Ditch the Jealousy 

Next time you feel the jealousy monster creeping in faster than a church service running into lunchtime, try these tested-and-obsessed-over strategies:

1. Thought-Stop Like Your Business Depends on It (Because It Does!)

“We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:5) is basically the ultimate mental detox. When that comparison thought hits, acknowledge it…then literally say “NOPE” out loud and pivot to gratitude faster than you switch from work mode to worship playlist.

2. Prayer = The Ultimate Power Move

This strategy is SO good it feels almost scandalous: When you’re seething with jealousy over someone’s latest win, immediately pray the MOST ridiculously generous blessing over their business. Try: “God, make her next launch even BIGGER and use her to reach even MORE people!” The jealousy literally cannot survive.

3. Hype Her Up So Hard It Hurts

Double-tap that post like your finger depends on it. Leave that comment dripping with fire emojis. Send a voice message celebrating her success. Plot twist: Being someone else’s biggest fan positions you for your own breakthrough moment. 

4. Your Lane Is Purposeful (So Stay In It!)

Psalm 139 literally confirms you’re “fearfully and wonderfully made” with a purpose that’s uniquely yours. Your business doesn’t need her aesthetic because God designed YOU with a specific audience in mind who needs exactly what only YOU offer. 

Why This Mindset Is The Ultimate Business Strategy 

Once you fully embrace this abundance thinking, something amazing happens. Your content gets more authentic. Your launches feel more aligned. Your stress levels? DOWN. Your creative flow? UP. And ironically, when you stop white-knuckling your way to success and start celebrating others, that’s when your business experiences its sexiest growth phase yet.

Another entrepreneur’s success is not your failure. The God who blessed her viral launch knows exactly what’s on your prayer list and is working behind the scenes on a breakthrough that will make your jaw DROP.

Your moment is coming, and it will probably be even better than you’ve imagined. So until then, keep building other ladies up. At the end of the day, you all are working hard to serve His purpose for your life. build each other up as we create businesses that don’t just serve our bank accounts, but serve His purpose too.

Have you ever caught yourself in a comparison spiral? Drop a comment below with your best abundance-mindset hack! And share this with a Christian biz bestie who desperately needs this reality check today!